After splitting up a while ago but only recently having moved out my daughter now needs to get used to two households. She has said that she feels more comfortable staying with me in our new house than with her dad in the house we all lived in. She says that she misses me when she's at her dad's and doesn't sleep very well and gets scared at night, this obviously pushes all my maternal buttons! For background she has just turned eight, we co-slept until last year (bedtimes have always been difficult for her and these were left to me), she is currently sleeping in her dad's room while at his house, although she is not used to him being around at bedtime (when we lived together he went to an outhouse each evening either before or after daughter went to bed and would stay there until the early hours). Obviously this is all a big change for our daughter, and she needs time to get used it. Ex wants daughter to stay at his three nights this week instead of the two she did last week. I don't think this is a good idea when daughter has said she doesn't feel comfortable sleeping there, I would rather change to one but know ex won't accept this so have suggested keeping it at two for the time being. He does not agree. Any advice welcomed.