Seeking sleep sympathy

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My children woke me up 6x last night. The youngest has been a frickin dismal sleeper 90% of her 3.5 years of life but last night the oldest was also struggling so it was particularly painful.

The youngest has been a gremlin today, and just declared herself tired (unsurprisingly). She's passed having a nap as a rule but given the total shit show that was last night I thought a lie down would be good for us both.

Settled us both down on the sofa (her suggestion), blankets, cushions etc, all tucked in. Closed my eyes. Just got to that point where I could feel myself sinking into it and she's declared 'All done! Not tired anymore. Can I have a snack now?'

I could cry. I was doing okay but that dangling carrot of a rest being snatched away is like the last straw. I've tried insisting that the rest happens but she's flailing around, counting, singing, asking if I'm done yet.

Not feeling particularly overjoyed by her existence at this precise moment.

It's utter hell. I feel you.

Thank you.

I think I must have been a grumpy witch the last few hours as she's just come in and said 'I'm sorry mummy. Sorry I thought I was tired when I was really just hungry'

😂

That last update - she sounds adorable 😍😂 but of course you want to disown her, change your name and flee the country right now, just for a few hours alone to close your eyes. Sleep deprivation is awful and dashed hopes are the worst! May tonight be better, and may your patience last till then!

It's so painful - solidarity. Many times like with this my DS who would pretend to nap for 5 mins then suddenly be very much awake. Even though I could clearly see he was very tired!

RIP to the nap that never was to be! I hear you OP, and feel your pain to the core of my (very tried) bones. CBeebies is your friend this afternoon 💐

Thanks for the solidarity friends!! They have both been top notch delightful the last few hours, I than goodness. Didn't think I was going to make it through ferrying to swimming, solo dinner etc (DH is away). They're now both tucked up in bed. I am making myself a herbal tea and a hot water bottle and heading right up with them!!! Washing up can wait till tomorrow 😴

You’re a superhero! Glad you’ve had a more enjoyable afternoon. Excellent decision on the washing up. Good luck for tonight 🤞🏼

Good plan. Well done. Parenting is really hardcore some days! Hope you get a decent kip tonight.

So much better! They actually both slept till 6 for the first time I can remember, and woke up in good spirits rather than the standard morning squabbles. Feel like a new woman :)

It really makes all the difference doesn't it?! Glad you had a decent night. May there be many more to come for you.