Apologies for incoming essay!
My DS was born at 33 weeks and is now 6 weeks adjusted/ coming up on 3 months old. He is exclusively formula fed and needs higher calorie milk due to low birthweight. Since a few days after he came home from the NICU after a 3 week stay we've had a barrage of symptoms which have developed:
Silent reflux
Screaming and contorting due to acid coming back up - sometimes even when being held fully upright
Constant congestion but nothing visible in nose/nothing comes out when suctioning
Occasional wheezing
Coughing and spluttering during and after feeds
Squirming around while feeding
Gagging randomly all the time
Straining sometimes for hours before passing normal consistency stools
Absolutely vile sour or sometimes rotten egg smelling dirty nappies
So far under the guidance of the consultant and dietician we have trialled:
Gaviscon - utter failure and caused horrendous constipation
Omeprazole - dosage being upped and upped but is doing very little to stop the acid burning him when milk comes up and he reswallows up to two and a half hours after last feed
Carobel - caused diarrhoea and also made his spit up like glue which caused him to choke
We have also done all of the standard reflux advice - upright paced feeding/raise head of cot/hold upright for hour after feeding/baby wearing etc etc to absolutely no avail whatsoever.
We are currently in the midst of a trial of a hydrolysed formula - Pepti Junior in case CMPA is the cause of all his issues. His silent reflux seems to be even worse than usual because the milk is thinner and he's spitting up more however Carobel is a no go. About two hours after a bottle he will inevitably start screaming as the acid rises to the back of his throat and it is terrifying to watch him twist and throw his head back with pure panic in his eyes. The omeprazole just isn't even touching it despite us rapidly approaching the top end of the dosage scale.
We thought we had maybe initially witnessed a very small improvement to his general discomfort level and congestion but I'm beginning to think this was a coincidence as this has not persisted. The dietician insists we continue for at least another week before reviewing but I just don't see there being any improvement now if there hasn't been any up to this point - by all accounts most people describe having a "new baby" after a few days if the milk is right.
I literally do not know what to do anymore. I don't know how I'll survive months and months more of this if no real cause is found because nothing I do/medication seems to make any difference whatsoever. I'm already really struggling after having such an extended newborn phase due to him being premature. I dread every feed especially at night and clock watch waiting for the two hour mark after his bottle when all hell inevitably breaks loose.
We don't have another appointment with the paediatrician for a month and the GP hasn't helped much beyond recalculating his omeprazole dose on an almost weekly basis when I've been calling to say it's still not having any effect. They don't really want to do too much because we are under the hospital but at the same time the hospital don't have any sooner appointments for him either.
Does anyone who has been through similar have any wisdom or anything to try that I may have missed? I'm at my wit's end