Ds is is nearly 4, which seems like a bit of a natural age for many people to have their second child. It means a lot of people from his nursery and my NCT class are pregnant or recently had their second.
Moreover, a lot of my closest friends also have had their second, or even third or have had 2-3 kids closer together and coming out of the baby years.
I always wanted a second, but the more DH has kicked the can down the road in making a decision, the more I am coming to terms that it is very likely we will just have one.
I know comparison is the thief of joy.and I need to focus on my own life and I know we have a great little family unit as it is. I know that I'm only seeing what I am focussing on and not paying attention to all the families who only have one, or no kids.
Yet, irrationally so, I feel like I am being left behind.
I didn't really have a question, however, felt the need to 'type it out' instead of keeping it inside.