Myself & my children are having to move to get away from my ex due to coercive abuse, emotional & financial abuse (something I'm still proccessing so please be gentle in response) theres so much to this i don't really know where to start. My main point of this post is we share a little boy together, I don't want to stop him from seeing our son necessarily because obv it's his son aswell so they should be able to have a relationship but it really upsets me to think about what impact he'll have on him as he grows up (he's soon to turn two) but I also cannot face my ex due to the abuse and my own mental health. It gives me great fear & anxiety to know hes still going to be in our lives somewhat - when im about to make a really big move and almost flip my kids lives upside down to get myself my other children and our son away- im terrified about what the reprocussions will be for finally being brave enough to leave now I've found somewhere we can sofa surf instead of going to the refuge women's aid offered us (as my other kids dad is really good and I couldn't take our girls that far from him nor could I do that to my daughters as they've been put thru enough) Please could anyone help with any suggestions what I can do/should do regarding my son having contact with my ex? I've thought my only escape from him was to end my life which is a big reason im struggling to accept still having to see him/have contact for our son & also the main reason I MUST get away. I'm not strong enough for it anymore x