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What to do when baby wakes in night wide awake?

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Inmydreams88 · 24/09/2024 03:36

My 8.5 month old has always been a good sleeper but recently he’s been waking up around midnight and he’s wide awake. He refuses his bottle so he's not hungry and his nappy is usually not wet or dirty. He’s just wide awake! If I bring him into our bed he just fusses and rolls around kicking us which disturbs my husband who needs to be up early for work.

I’ve tried leaving him in his cot and going in and putting his dummy in but he will roll around and entertain himself for a while but then start to get frustrated and cry. When he was younger I’d take him downstairs in the dark and put him in the Moses basket and he would just eventually fall asleep, now he’s older I don’t know what to do with him, take him downstairs and let him play??? The past two nights I’ve taken him downstairs in his bouncer and let him watch hey bear, which obviously isn’t ideal, I don’t know how else to get him to sleep. If I let him play with toys he could be awake for hours and I’m worried that could interfere with his body clock even more. He’s not a cuddly baby so I know rocking him to sleep wouldn’t work when he’s that wide awake. I’m at a loss.

sorry for the long sleep deprived ramble!

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Merrow · 24/09/2024 03:54

DS1 went through a period of that. Like clockwork he'd be up for an hour exactly (or 2? I can't remember). Eventually I just accepted that this was the phase and read to him (I think I can still recite the gruffalo's child from memory 5 years on...) I figured reading wasn't too stimulating, and it gave me a way of passing the time. Then once he hit that mark he would quite easily go back to sleep. DP and I split the shifts.

There's lots of advice on Google for "split nights", and I tried various things, but to be honest with DS1 it was just a phase that passed. DS2 is a much worse sleeper generally, and the reason I'm up now, but he's never had that sheer wide awakeness that DS1 had!

Mayflower282 · 24/09/2024 04:12

Try cutting down the daytime naps

BobbyDazzler11 · 24/09/2024 06:42

Baby is just about to turn 8 months and doing the same around 11-11.30pm !!!!
no matter how much or little he has napped that day.

driving me nuts and hoping it will pass.

it's like he's had a bag of sugar and just won't settle. Also not a cuddly baby so doesn't work for us to rock . Bloody killer :(

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