I am looking for some advice or words of wisdom regarding my daughter age 6 , July the 10th 2024 I received a phone call from daughters school and my child had disclosed to a teacher when visiting her father he had smacked her arm social services contacted my self and explained as that weekend she visited her father's he rang me from his girlfriend's phone shouting down the phone to come and get her she's done this and that wrong my daughter was petrified my self my ex is very hostile towards me and previous dv is a main issue my son had to take me in my wheelchair to go for her since that date she has seen her father twice one because social services encouraged me to send my daughter resulting my daughter to be on an electric quad as a pilon passenger with a helmet that was too big for her and with a child who is 7 my daughter and the other child had an accident on the quad resulting in my daughter losing her two front teeth bruised ribs and back ligature marks around her neck and ringing to the ears When her father brought her home he was carrying her and she was facing away from me when she turned round she was covered in blood all over her face and her mouth was dripping I asked wtf had happened and he started shouting and screaming at me blaming my daughter I took my daughter to accident and emergency. A few weeks ago bye and her dad's girlfriend messages and asks if she wants to go out for a family meal my daughter did go because her older sister (16) was there she come home no incident since then she has been asked numerous times if she wanted to go and see her dad and she explained she didn't want to see him She has never expressed she has wanted to contact her dad or anything when ever his girlfriend has messaged to see if my daughter wanted to go to see them she has stated no she doesn't want to see him in which I have proof videos voice recordings etc and social services interviews when she was alone her behavior has been out of control with anxiety and fear she has asked to change her name because she isn't like her dad expressed that her dad is evil and nasty she is scared of it him and doesn't feel safe when it comes to her dad she has a reoccurring nightmare in which she goes to the beach with her dad and he leaves her in the sea and she drowns and he leaves her she has explained all of this to social worker who has no concerns around me or my care , this evening she went out with her oldest sister and her oldest sisters nana When out with her oldest sister and older sisters nana my daughters dad rang his oldest child and she explained she was with my own daughter. He told her he has had social services ( not our social worker another one 🤔) to his girlfriend's telling him he is a risk to the children and to oldest sister but no mention of my daughter I don't know why when oldest sister was on the phone he spoke to my daughter and said he missed her and she could go when ever she wanted to she said no I can't because mam is stopping me. I was made aware of all this when she returned home upon asking daughter why she said this she just said she didn't know why she said it I asked her if I always give her the choice whenever him or his girlfriend messaged and she said yes . My daughter since the 10th July has only went to her dad's twice on her say so I have not bad mouthed her dad or anything when he became verbally abusive towards me on returning our child when she had an accident I told him to go away because he isn't screaming at me like that all my daughter was Petrified screaming at him to go away and stop shouting at her mam she is petrified her dad is going to hit me as she has told me this has being said behind my back on multiple occasions, her dad has continued his dv with new partner and smashed her house up just last week I think this is why another social worker is invloved . all I have done is reassure my daughter and try my best to make her feel safe as her behavior is out of control with fear and anxiety of her dad I am not scared of him no more in anyway our relationship ended due to domestic violence drink and drug misuse. I don't know if my daughter is being influenced by her older sister or not and can I find out why he poses a risk to his partners kids a 16 year old child who doesn't live with him but not my daughter. Any advice I would really appreciate as I don't know what to do as now even if my daughter doesn't want to see her dad he will say I am alienating him and stopping him being a parent I have always wanted my daughter to have a relationship with her dad I have had conversations with her regarding what concerns her about her dad and she has disclosed she is unsafe which is obviously a concern I don't know what to do as I have never stopped her from going to see him I have always given her a choice but now she has told her dad I'm stopping her 😭🤔🤦🏻♀️