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Encouraging 6 year old to read

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wholenutcadburys · 23/09/2024 12:08

Hello,

We're having some issues with DS (turned 6 in August) so he's the one of the youngest in his year and his reading.

He can read, though likes to "chunk" the word up and blend the sounds together but actually getting him to read is becoming so difficult. He will do all he can to not read, mess about, talk about something entirely different instead or just explain what the pictures are/describe what they're showing.

If I'm completely honest I do think there may be something underlying which I will be discussing with the senco at his school, he is already on a learning plan at school just to encourage his work. He often has comments like he daydreams often, he's not the most confident in class to speak out but he's a very well behaved boy and doesn't disrupt the class in any way just is one of the quiet little ones.

So any tips, advice, absolutely anything that might get him to want to read and I still that confidence. We've got books he's specifically asked for and loved so he's not bored with the books, just doesn't want to put the effort in. Which we have picked up if he doesn't find it interesting he just messes about. This is the case with homework though we can power through (he absolutely loves maths and will whizz through the work but spellings, writing, English literature and reading he will lose focus completely)

Thank you ever so much, from a very worried and stressed out mum 🥲

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UniversalTruth · 23/09/2024 12:21

Number 1 - take the stress out of it!

Great tips here

Reading underpins all the other skills at school so I wouldn't worry about how much he focuses on other homework tbh. For English for example, you could set him up with everything he needs, set a 10 minute timer and see how he does. In year 1 and 2 we were regularly sending homework in unfinished with "20 minutes work" written on it, or we would do it verbally and I scribed - it's not fair to penalise the kids who struggle at home as well as at school in my opinion.

Another thing you can try is coloured filters - I bought a pack from the internet and tried the different ones. One colour, ds said it make the words stop moving - he'd never mentioned it before. He's grown out of needing it now. If it helps at home, school can use it too.

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UniversalTruth · 23/09/2024 12:32

Adding: the thing that had the biggest impact on my ds who sounds like your ds at age 6 (I put that in my reply but then deleted it somehow!) was verbalising that we knew he was trying really hard, and some people find some things easy and others find it hard but we would work out what ds needs to succeed together.

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