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Newborn crying in sleep almost constantly

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Olihrty · 17/09/2024 09:14

Our 2 week old boy suffers terribly with gas. Our elder son had awful reflux and at first we were worried this one had it too, but it's obvious his problem is gas.

During the night he'll just whimper, grunt and often gently cry and whine, all with his eyes closed and seemingly while he's still asleep. Sometimes he'll let out a fart and visibly relax for a little while before it all starts again.

To begin with, we'd pick him up as soon as he made a sound - which meant holding him all night. Now I'm thinking that as he's sleeping, we are best leaving him to it until he wakes and cries properly, otherwise we're constantly interrupting his sleep and we're not sleeping at all. He'll usually start crying properly and wake every 1-2 hours where we'll change and feed him, which is fine and expected newborn behaviour.

Does anyone have any experience of this?

Online it says active sleep is normal and babies will make lots of sounds. But I'm not seeing anything about almost constant whining and crying during sleep. I absolutely do not want to leave him in his bassinet if he's actively upset and needing us.

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DustyLee123 · 17/09/2024 09:25

Yes, I’d leave him until he actually cries. Are you using anything like colic drops?

Olihrty · 17/09/2024 09:28

DustyLee123 · 17/09/2024 09:25

Yes, I’d leave him until he actually cries. Are you using anything like colic drops?

We're using infacol and I'm on the fence about whether we should try probiotic drops.

Last night we left him until he properly cried but I'm feeling so guilty because he was crying and whimpering in his sleep the entire night and I just felt like I was ignoring and abandoning him 😞💔

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Snowdrops17 · 17/09/2024 09:29

Just don't over do it on the Infacol we have it with every bottle and it made her so much worse .

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Olihrty · 17/09/2024 09:30

Snowdrops17 · 17/09/2024 09:29

Just don't over do it on the Infacol we have it with every bottle and it made her so much worse .

It didn't help my elder son, it just exacerbated his reflux. So far it's ok with this one.

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blondemumof4 · 17/09/2024 09:32

Olihrty · 17/09/2024 09:14

Our 2 week old boy suffers terribly with gas. Our elder son had awful reflux and at first we were worried this one had it too, but it's obvious his problem is gas.

During the night he'll just whimper, grunt and often gently cry and whine, all with his eyes closed and seemingly while he's still asleep. Sometimes he'll let out a fart and visibly relax for a little while before it all starts again.

To begin with, we'd pick him up as soon as he made a sound - which meant holding him all night. Now I'm thinking that as he's sleeping, we are best leaving him to it until he wakes and cries properly, otherwise we're constantly interrupting his sleep and we're not sleeping at all. He'll usually start crying properly and wake every 1-2 hours where we'll change and feed him, which is fine and expected newborn behaviour.

Does anyone have any experience of this?

Online it says active sleep is normal and babies will make lots of sounds. But I'm not seeing anything about almost constant whining and crying during sleep. I absolutely do not want to leave him in his bassinet if he's actively upset and needing us.

You could try the bicycles legs and running his tummy to help relieve the gas, even a nice warm bath helps as it makes them relax and he will let rip.

Bless him 💙

Olihrty · 17/09/2024 12:36

blondemumof4 · 17/09/2024 09:32

You could try the bicycles legs and running his tummy to help relieve the gas, even a nice warm bath helps as it makes them relax and he will let rip.

Bless him 💙

Thank you. We've tried all these things to no avail 😞 my main concern now is whether I leave him to it when he looks like he's sleeping, or if I should pick him up just in case

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Butterflysunshine01 · 17/09/2024 13:01

Tummy rubs clockwise and nice warm baths skin to skin. Hopefully it will pass in a matter of weeks and it’s just his system getting used to being in the outside world.

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