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Managing two large dogs and a newborn baby alone

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Vavamum · 03/09/2024 21:08

I have a challenge ahead and am hoping to read some positive experiences and stories. DH and I have two large dogs that we adore (they're great with kids), and our first baby is on the way. I think it’s worth mentioning that these dogs are ridiculously loved. We’re not in our 20s anymore, and when all our friends were having babies, we had the time to spoil our dogs rotten. We’re definitely the type who love our dogs more than people most of the time - I'm sure you get the gist.

I’ve seen many women have a baby and then seem to neglect their dogs because the baby becomes the number one priority. I don’t want to do that. While I understand that I’ll be busy and focused on my new little human, I still want to make sure our dogs get the same number of walks as they do now. I know I won't have as much time to fuss over them or teach them new tricks, but their walks are something I want to keep consistent.

One challenge for me is that DH works away from home for half the week, and working locally isn’t an option right now. I’ll have support from my mum and MIL for the first few months until I get used to the new routine, but eventually, it’ll just be me managing everything (3 days a week only).

Right now, I can naively imagine taking walks with a pram and my two dogs, and everything being fine. But I realized today that I’ve never actually seen a woman with a pram and two large dogs. Am I being unrealistic? Or will I be fine?

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crunchyleavesontheway · 07/09/2024 09:25

I had a baby with 2 dogs and then 2 babies with 2 dogs. Be prepared for a lot of people to stop you and say 'you have your hands full!'

I also see lots of mums with a baby and 2 dogs. Most have a pram when they're walking. If the dogs are well-behaved which it sounds like they are then you will be doing your usual dog walks but will now have a baby too. My biggest struggle was getting back from a dog walk in winter time with 2 wet muddy dogs and a wet/muddy pram and trying to get everyone back in the house. Have a baby bouncer nearby to transfer the baby and towels for dogs or an area they can go while you sort the baby.

One thing I would say which I'm sure you know* is never* leave the baby alone with the dogs no matter how well-behaved they are.

Vavamum · 07/09/2024 11:23

@mirrensidhe yes of course I can control them, what is it with you and your snide little comments

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