“Facts of Life” book for 14 yo girl

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My daughter has had the American book “the Care and Keeping of You” for several years now. I chose it deliberately because it focussed on puberty-driven changes, health and hygiene. Now that she’s older, I guess she could do with something that’s a bit more age appropriate. I talk to her about internet safety, recognising a wrong ‘un and all sorts, but I’m not sure I’m equipped to talk her through exploring her body and other awkward topics. I’d be happy to answer questions she might have from the book, but not to launch into it without preamble IYSWIM. Anything which is clear on the difference between sex and gender, particularly welcomed (this is not a topic of particular concern, my daughter is clear on the difference and thinks gender identity is nonsense so could just do without that chapter!)

It's not exactly what you're looking for but I recommend Girl Up by Laura Bates
https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/1471149501/

Oh I might get this for myself!

Try her other books too! Everyday sexism is good. Let me know if you want further feminist lit recommendations.

I think unless she’s been living under a rock so far, she probably doesn’t really need a book. Just talk to her. They will have been discussing online safety and sexual health and puberty for years at school now already. Why not ask the school for a copy of the curriculum and use that as a talking point? Or ask her about any concerns with real life situations online that you can use as a teachable moment?

Mine certainly came home in Y5 with questions about sex and puberty. She’s now old enough that her friends have had bad experiences online and we’ve talked about that and how to think critically. I think conversations about real world concerns are more impactful than a book.

That said, I went to see Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret in the cinema and it was a good way to stimulate discussions especially on puberty and relationships.