I find myself so so sad that my kids are getting older I’m currently in a custody battle with my youngest daughters father which is putting so much stress on me and her she’s only 6. My oldest has just moved out and my middle to children stay with their dad a lot. I had a extremely close bond with my 14 year old son until very recently he only wants to stay at his dads and seems to be happy to stay there for weeks at a time without coming to mine anymore. I’ve tried to put my feelings across and say to his dad it’s not fair that he doesn’t make him come. But I’m not sure there is anything I can do to force him to come? I’m so lost without them all being home every night and running round after them I feel so lonely and depressed and I don’t know what to do.