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Break up 💔

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P0p · 23/08/2024 23:09

Broke up with my partner, been together for 2 years and had a baby together that turn 1 this year, we finally come together and thought it's not working plus I left cause I had enough. What a waste right . But I'm happy been a single mother now less stress . But I'm also struggling because I miss him but we never did anything together and our relationship was quite toxic especially with the mind games, acused of cheating if I was home late, being manipulative, being moody if I would attend to my child first and not him, couldn't see friends, even funny about me meeting family, and always my fault and bringing up exs and blamed for everything that was happening in his life. I normally don't stand for crap . Why do I miss him? And has anyone been in a similar situation? 🙃

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Toothy321 · 24/08/2024 07:38

Keep focusing on reasons you and your child are better off now. Write them down if you think you might forget. But yes it's normal to grieve a bit, just focus on your child

PolaroidPrincess · 24/08/2024 07:38

That does sound like he's an abuser OP. I'm glad that you've managed to get out. Abuse like that can give you some very mixed emotions. Just wondering if you've heard of the Freedom Program? It might be worth doing that?

chimchiminey · 24/08/2024 07:49

Freedom programme will really help you. You sound as amazing woman, strong and resilient even if you may not feel it.

I would say you miss the idea of him, rather than the reality. That’s okay, it will dwindle as your new life develops.

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P0p · 24/08/2024 09:09

It's been a rollercoaster of a journey for me, I'm glad I'm finally out and stuck to my word this time 😌

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P0p · 24/08/2024 09:11

Definitely I'm having loads of mixed emotions it's been a week today that I walked out, I'll definitely give that a look thankyou 🥰

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P0p · 24/08/2024 09:17

I'll have a look😌 thankyou so much I'm determined to keep going for myself and most definitely for my little boy

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PolaroidPrincess · 24/08/2024 14:37

Congratulations on being a week free of your abuser and taking that huge step towards a better life for you and your DS Flowers

P0p · 25/08/2024 15:44

Thankyou so much 🥰 most definitely the best move I've made just happy to give my son the life he deserves ❤️

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