Good morning!
I think this might turn into a rant but just wanted to see if anyone else has ever been in the same position!
my tenth month old is thriving! Walking at 8 months, meeting his milestones, loving his food (not so much his milk) but is generally a content little boy!! Apart from sleep issues (which is one thing I just can’t seem to crack) my son is doing well!
he has an incredible relationship with his dad. We are still together and work hard to meet his needs!
my son (I know is still young) is all about daddy! He cries when dad leaves the room, always goes on the hunt to find him during the day as he works from home.
he isn’t like this with me. He doesn’t notice when I leave the room, doesn’t get upset when I go anywhere and always wants dad to put him down to bed at night. I do everything for him. Play all day long, feed him, cook all his meals and generally spend the most time with him and I barely can get a smile or a laugh and I have to work god damn hard for one!
I just wanted to reach out to see if there is anything I can do to make a tighter bond with my son. Feel a little jealous that my husband gets all the love and want and I’m a little unnoticed. I know it sounds silly but it’s really starting to get me down and make me feel like my son doesn’t even like me…
im glad they have a super close bond! I know some children only have one parent to rely on. Just want my boy to enjoy spending time with me I guess.
I always wanted to be a mum! Wanted a little mini me (which is what we got) and I have so much love to give.
any advice or ideas would be great! Could do without the judgement as already feel pfff about it.