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Holiday with son and ex

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Reacher81 · 12/08/2024 22:16

Before all the no no’s start I’m already regretting it……

Quick recap… me and my son’s mum have been apart for 7 years. We have a son who is 13 and is autistic. Last year she parted from her husband ( we weren’t married btw) …anyhoo, just before the summer hols she asked me if I would like to go away in this country for the week for my sons sake, to which I said yes, had my reservations as that boat has sailed… however, day 3 and I’m beginning to feel like babysitter,/ her dog walker. When my son goes to bed, she
then disappears to her room.. leaving me sat here like a spare part as I’m sharing a room with son and he has trouble getting off to sleep most nights.. I’m not looking for reconciliation of any kind but would be nice to have some conversation/ company considering Ive come along because I was asked..

yes it’s self inflicted , yes I should have known..

was hoping if anyone can offer some advice ( mention something
To her) or maybe just cut all strings when back home and say you’re on your own apart from when he stays with me and medical appointments.

sorry for the rant, cheers.

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mumsnoangel · 13/08/2024 06:58

That's tough so perhaps just learn the lesson and don't agree to any future trips together. For your son's sake, though, make an effort to keep things happy and peaceful for him and just say to you ex that you won't do it again as it doesn't really work spending time with her. I'd recommend you don't fall out over it, just a polite "no thanks" if they suggest this again. Well done for trying!

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