Son met dads new girlfriend

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Hello..

Me and my sons Dad parted 3 years ago.
Our son is 6

He goes to his dads every other weekend
He's come home a few times mentioning dad's new friend and her kids. Going play area.. her house.. for food etc..

But his dad has never told me he's introduced them etc etc or anything.

I'm not upset he's moved on. Not one bit.
I just don't know if it's wrong he didn't tell me?
I'm his mum. He's my little man. What do you think? And do I say anything or just let him get on with it

What was it that you were wanting to say?

He should have mentioned to you (out of respect) that he met someone as that person is going to be part of your sons life. Very strange and a bit sneaky not to mention it.

If you’re comfortable with it, maybe it’s worth having a gentle conversation with your ex. You could frame it as wanting to ensure your son’s well-being and understanding how he’s settling into these new situations. Ultimately, you know your son best and can gauge how he’s feeling about these new changes. But having a clear, respectful conversation might help ensure that both you and your ex are on the same page about how to support your son through these transitions.