I recently found out I’m pregnant, very early. I am due to start a new job in a few week, that in it’s self is causing me stress!
this will be our 3rd baby, currently have 10yr & 4yr old. my husband is freaking out & says it’s not good timing, he doesn’t want another kid, we can’t afford my maternity leave, we are getting our life back as couple now..all the negatives.
Im so confused to what I want. Ive always wanted more kids so although this 1 isn’t planned I do feel like I’ve been given my chance. But in the other hand I’m due to start a new job which is full time (giving us more financially) I’ve always been part time but now the kids are older & in school I can do more hours now.
I can stay in my current job and after maternity my part time hours allows less childcare Or I can start my new job, get my higher salary but then after maternity I’d be returning full time & meaning we’d need more childcare which is ££.
My husbands says in the end it’s my decision, although he would prefer we got an abortion. But can I life with this pregnancy knowing he doesn’t really want it? Am I being selfish to my other 2 by not accepting a job that will give them better things in life?
everything seems so negetive but I don’t think i can get an abortion :(