DS1 is 4 and prefers DH over me by a mile. Breaks my heart because our bond was so strong when he was smaller and I miss it so deeply. I’m the “stricter” parent and DH lets him do what he wants. For example, he let him have sweets at bedtime tonight even though I said no. This is causing problems because I don’t feel heard and it’s clear DS massively prefers him (not surprisingly you might say). I feel like I’m losing my bond with DS. DS follows DH everywhere. DH gets more kisses and cuddles. I often get told to go away. DS wants DH to be the one to read to him or get him dressed, not me. I’ve expressed to DH that I’m beginning to feel pushed out, but I think he seems to love the attention and does very little to get me more involved/be on my side etc. I’m beginning to wish I was a single parent so I could have that quality time with DS and I’d also be able to stick to boundaries and routine that I feel is appropriate. Has anybody else been in the same boat?