Thank you and points taken.....though I neeeddd mn to vent today so I don't just sit an dwell and think too much about personal stuff i.e divorce (waiting for letter today confirming I am now a miss again), the run * ediots I've met.
Namely a major a** who I met on a dating website (I know I know, but nothing ventured nothing gained, am still kicking myself) who did the its not you its me speech sent me a blumin email...coward.
Not revealing names but anyone living in preston/manchester don't be taken in by a guy who states they've just moved to the area opening up a hair salon blah blah (tho this is true), he'll be very charming, very witty intelligent but is an absolute a** with it and other major expetives/player...consistantly let me down but reeled me back in with the charm/slime oh and he's not 31(ahem he's 35) and no I'm not bitter...just hacked. Have so learned a lesson!
Note to self never venture on a dating site again or in fact near men full stop...unless in a chemical suit, with asbestos forbiding gloves, pole to prod em with and a set criteria of boundaries (hello my name is upsadaisy and I have issues, afterall i've become a mad woman today).
However if you know of a nice single guy who would like to meet a well balanced, ambitious feisty lady then send my way...or maybe not have too much work to do and I'm venting on the point of needing to call the doctor for some sedatives, revenge tactics, breathing techniques or a poppy lemon muffin from starbucks...
and thank you Ruby I will be stuffing the training, this week.