I am I'm tears and I feel useless I've had my 3rd baby 3 weels ago
I was a great mum 2 my other children. But I am failing miserably here. My baby is beautiful and sweet and 90 percent of the time he's happy and feel like we're doing well. But every single night at 6-11 he doesn't stop crying no matter what we do. I breastfeed he cries . I burp him he cries I sway him rock him whatever he cries . Not a normal cry a heartwrenching absalutely kills me inside, cry. A cry that is inconsolable
Then he passes out then I try pop him in his bed and the crying starts again. We've tried everything. He will sleep.in a carrier on his dad amd still be unsettled but better then crying for hours and getting overtired. He does atleast sleep .But I've got an infected c section scar and can't use the carrier yet. I feel like a failure. My other babies never went through this and my boob would always soothe them. But every night he gets so worked up and upset.then a viscous circle of over tired. But he's gets all his naps. And he has the right amount wake windows. It's like A switch goes off and he's like a different baby. Please someone help. I'm worried about the long term affect on his brain. With all the constant upset and screaming . I'm also really down on myself as I can't seen to settle him 😔