Hi, I just wanted peoples opinions on this. My sons dad was very abusive to me, he hit me smashed my flat up, my car up spat on me, strangled me, threatened me and my family, said he’d kill me, threw glasses at me and all sorts, said nasty stuff about our son, like that he ruined his life, he didn’t want to be his dad, he wish he never had him, said F him, that he was jealous of him for taking me away from him all while my son was under 1. I finally got the strength to leave for my son I only stayed so long due to trauma bond and him being on my tenancy (also worried he’d kill himself or me) so please don’t judge me. His brother as well is a very nasty piece of work, said he hopes my son gets sexually assaulted, tried smashing his bedroom window all while he had a loaded gun in his bag (thank god we didn’t see him) I rang the police and he’s now in jail. However I am also worried for when he comes out. My son still sees his dad and uncles mom but recently it has been really stressing me out. She wants to see him more but I did tell her that many people are surprised I let them see him at all after everything. It adds so much anxiety for me as I would love a clean break, how am I supposed to get over what me and my son went through if I still still with the abusers family? My son is now 2, he is not close to them at all, and he has a good family with me and my family where he won’t ever come to any harm, we are nothing like them! But I just don’t know what to do I wish I cut it off sooner. The mom hasn’t always been the nicest to me she has recently but it’s just so much stress. I also think it will be very confusing for my son as he will see his dads family not his dad. Could anybody give me any advice please as I don’t want to be selfish.