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Constantly worry about being a bad mum

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Helliicopter · 07/07/2024 22:05

Anyone else do this? My kids go to bed and I spend my little alone time worrying that I’m a bad mum and analysing my day

did I handle my toddlers tantrum right? Is my youngest teething does the Ashton & parsons work ? Or do I get ambesol

its really bringing my mood down I’m analysing every single thing. Like now my 2.5yo we are trying to move away from the dummy. He only has it bedtime and nap but we want to help him wean off it when we can. I knew by doing a big song and dance like the dummy fairy would just provoke a meltdown and he’d refuse. So he didn’t have it for nap today fell asleep without it so I tried it at bedtime he only asked twice and wasn’t upset I just distracted him.

so although it’s an achievement he’s had no dummy today - I have such guilt feeling like an awful mum worrying he’s gone to bed sad wondering about his dummy?

Does anyone else sit and analyse constantly

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firsttimemama1994 · 07/07/2024 23:10

Yeah I do, have done since my 2 year old was a baby. Constantly telling myself I'm a terrible mother. Realistically I know I'm not, but to me everyone seems to be doing better somehow. If we didn't worry, we wouldn't care or be a good mother. You are a good mother because you just want to be the best for your baby, but it's just not achievable ❤️

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