I've been unwell for years with gallstones, i had surgery 2 weeks ago to remove my gallbladder, I was doing quite well until 2 days ago where I came down with tonsillitis, im having a flare up of all my symptoms from surgery and feel absolutely dreadful. I have an 8 month old baby boy and hes a very difficult baby, needs constant entertainment, fights every nap time and isn't at all interested in the TV. Im not supposed to lift him for 6 weeks but have been left with no choice on several occasions as he's just learnt to crawl. Im really struggling with looking after him and things just got even worse after our cat got out and was run over yesterday, our dog is also on her last legs she's got heart failure which has progressively got worse, she's now not eating and we need to come to a decision about whether it's her time. We've come to stay with in laws after all the distress and they just aren't any help at all and DS sleeps awfully here as they still haven't blacked out the room after me begging for months. Im on a strict diet and they just have takeaway every night and I just feel completely disregarded, they don't acknowledge any of what we've been through at all. partner insists we stay so we can have more help while lm ill but theyre honestly no help whatsoever, after another sleepless night theyre planning on going to the seaside which i thought great hopefully i can get a few hours on my own to rest but theyre taking FILs parents so not enough seats in the car for my partner and son to come with them. My partner is overwhelmed with taking on the majority of childcare and It stresses me out so much, i just need to rest and recover but I can't. I'm just at my wits end, ive no idea how to navigate the situation anymore there just doesn't seem to be any end in sight.