Me and my partner have been together 5 years we now live together only my name is on the tenancy though. we have a 15 month old and my partner and I can agree on anything, honestly it’s exhausting. So it started when I had my c section your meant to rest obviously after but I did everything cooking cleaning and looking after our baby myself luckily we was living with my parents at this time and they helped me out while I recovered. Now we’ve been in our place since November 2023. He doesn’t seem to get why I’m so tired?? I’m cooking I’m cleaning I’m taking care of my child 24/7 washing laundry putting it away etc, now we co sleep also when I put my son to bed at 6.30/7 my partner then gets angry when I leave him in bed by himself while my partner has been on his ass all day playing video games. My sons asleep so I feel like I can get a few things done then get back in bed and have a hour watching tv before I nod off this seems to cause an argument. So my nanny is very helpful so I can keep on top of things and have some time to myself she takes him out once’s a week while I then spend most of my day cleaning. He has of past week has told me I’m not aloud to do this I get plenty of time to myself and that I choose to have a child my nanny is not aloud to do this. I feel as though that’s not fair as all my partner does is play on his pc all day till 3am then moan when he comes to bed as he wakes me up and complains about some toys not being put away from the one trip he made downstairs. I tried stoping doing his washing up cooking his food but then it never got done and I don’t wanna live in a swamp tbh when I tell him it’s overwhelming the mess and if could watch our child for 10 mins while I do a quick tidy up in the kitchen ect so my son doesn’t climb up the chairs he tells me it’s not his problem and he don’t give a fuck. I honestly having enough it’s exhausting I’m not crazy am I ? He makes me feel as though I am atm