Not feeling good enough

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Hi all,

Maybe just looking for some reassurance here. I also know I shouldn’t compare my parenting but can’t help it sometimes.

I have a friend whose 2.5 yr old is advanced for his age which I hear a lot about when we are having play dates. She has always been quite into making every moment a teaching moment with him and if we’re on walks, she’s always getting him to point out colours or telling him things like..’what do we do when running…etc’. It can border on incessant and sometimes I think give him some space to just be for a while or potter if that makes sense.

My parenting style is yes to chat and point things out, but not to the same level. I like to give my ds (22 months) some space when we’re out places as well and just let him experience a little as well.

I guess I’m feeling a bit like, when watching her, I’m not being as engaging as I should be but also whether that’s ok.

Ah this parenting lark is an emotional rollercoaster. If anyone has any of their own experiences would love to hear. Thanks x

I leave mine to it as much as possible. He's over 2 and a half now and talks non stop. I like a break from the chat! If he's engaged playing on his own, looking at books in his bedroom, or happy doing his own thing when we're out and about then I leave him well alone. If he comes to me then I engage in the chat.

I like the moments of peace and quiet! I also like seeing him immersed in his own little thoughts and I don't want to intrude on them with my thoughts. He's working things out for himself and needs some space to do that.