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Activities for 11/12 year old boy at home

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mks101 · 03/06/2024 21:01

What do your boys (11/12 years old) do for fun when at home? My 11 (soon to be 12) year old boy loves his sport and is very active outside the house with various clubs / activities but the moment he is home he seems to get very bored and mopey and seem to get enthused over anything but watching tv or play computer games. Surely there must be other things that are fun for boys that age but all my suggestions fall on dead ears for being ‘too boring’ 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Watchthedoormat · 03/06/2024 21:05

My ds loved playing things like Top Trump's.
What about starting a sticker collection or the like. Football cards?

Oleo24 · 03/06/2024 21:14

Same situation here. Anything I suggest which is non screen-based is boring. Up until about a year ago, he could amuse himself quite happily doing different things. Would love some ideas too.

Workawayxx · 03/06/2024 21:21

It’s a tricky age, very screen based here 🙄 but following for suggestions.

My 12 yo ds does still use the trampoline a bit and I have an indoor rebounder that he goes on. He will cook sometimes, we make chocolate brownies or look on YouTube for video ideas for recipes. He has a pindaloo ball toy thing that he uses or does keepy uppies or other ball related games.

eta ds also enjoys board games but they need someone to play with.

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Rocknrollstar · 03/06/2024 21:34

Some of those advanced Lego kits? Board games.

rzb · 03/06/2024 21:34

Reading marginally age-inappropriate fiction with drink / drugs / sex / violence / pretty damned awful human behaviour themes. He'll binge read, gleefully, perhaps thinking I disapprove of his book choices (which I don't).

coodawoodashooda · 03/06/2024 21:58

rzb · 03/06/2024 21:34

Reading marginally age-inappropriate fiction with drink / drugs / sex / violence / pretty damned awful human behaviour themes. He'll binge read, gleefully, perhaps thinking I disapprove of his book choices (which I don't).

What are these books please?

rzb · 04/06/2024 07:21

@coodawoodashooda The first one that was more 'adult' in nature that he couldn't put down was the CHERUB series, by Robert Muchamore. It's about deniable child spies, and over the series includes swearing, underage drinking, sex, violence, teen relationships, drugs gangs, and so on, which gets a bit more involved in the later books in the series (when the characters are older than in the earlier books).

My boy's a pretty happy reader anyway (has previously gone through series including Harry Potter, Skullduggery Pleasant, Percy Jackson and other Rick Riordan series, and currently waiting for the fourth Nevermoor book to appear (Nevermoor books are great for family road trips as an audiobook - enjoyable for adults whilst being accessible for younger siblings, too), but Robert Muchamore's books are many degrees closer to plausibility and the real world, so are a bit more pointed than books where the violence involves witty, fire-throwing skeletons and lacks the (relatively tame) explicit content.

Hendersons' Boys and the Robin Hood series, also by Robert Muchamore, have been devoured equally quickly. He's got things like the Special Forces Cadet Series by Chris Ryan and Christopher Paolini's 'The Inheritance Cycle' on his wishlists.

We've been lucky that choosing books and reading is intertwined with growing independence for our children. It's not something we planned but, as the local library was one of the first places we allowed them to venture to independently, and they have online library accounts which they use to reserve books and check when they're available to collect, and they take themselves to the library after school to collect and/or return books, they have control and autonomy over their reading. I check what they've borrowed and look the books up, and if they might be a bit mature / over their heads, I let them know that the 'wisdom' of the internet suggests its more suited to older readers and that I'm available if they've got any questions.

arethereanyleftatall · 04/06/2024 07:22

Go for a run.

coodawoodashooda · 04/06/2024 20:33

rzb · 04/06/2024 07:21

@coodawoodashooda The first one that was more 'adult' in nature that he couldn't put down was the CHERUB series, by Robert Muchamore. It's about deniable child spies, and over the series includes swearing, underage drinking, sex, violence, teen relationships, drugs gangs, and so on, which gets a bit more involved in the later books in the series (when the characters are older than in the earlier books).

My boy's a pretty happy reader anyway (has previously gone through series including Harry Potter, Skullduggery Pleasant, Percy Jackson and other Rick Riordan series, and currently waiting for the fourth Nevermoor book to appear (Nevermoor books are great for family road trips as an audiobook - enjoyable for adults whilst being accessible for younger siblings, too), but Robert Muchamore's books are many degrees closer to plausibility and the real world, so are a bit more pointed than books where the violence involves witty, fire-throwing skeletons and lacks the (relatively tame) explicit content.

Hendersons' Boys and the Robin Hood series, also by Robert Muchamore, have been devoured equally quickly. He's got things like the Special Forces Cadet Series by Chris Ryan and Christopher Paolini's 'The Inheritance Cycle' on his wishlists.

We've been lucky that choosing books and reading is intertwined with growing independence for our children. It's not something we planned but, as the local library was one of the first places we allowed them to venture to independently, and they have online library accounts which they use to reserve books and check when they're available to collect, and they take themselves to the library after school to collect and/or return books, they have control and autonomy over their reading. I check what they've borrowed and look the books up, and if they might be a bit mature / over their heads, I let them know that the 'wisdom' of the internet suggests its more suited to older readers and that I'm available if they've got any questions.

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Thanks for this.

HalfasleepChrisintheMorning · 04/06/2024 20:50

Paint Warhammer figures. He loves it.

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