Is this normal?

[Ambbz]

At the minute whenever my 2.5 yo goes to his nans, it’s like he doesn’t want to know me ! He tells me to move , asks for her and just doesn’t seem to phased by me there ?

im not sure why. She is a bit overbearing so if he trips or something and I go to him she’ll run ahead first and be like LET NANNY COMFORT YOU

She overfeed him so he knows she has chocolate and biscuits and obviously I’m bad cop because we limit them in the house of course

but is it normal? I feel awful when I go it almost makes me not want to go tbh

Is he still in nappies? Imagine toilet training and visiting. Guess who will be doing a zillion trips to the loo with your toddler?? Sit back and enjoy the peace ime. A hot cuppa and chill. A rare treat if I remember rightly.

@Beautifulbythebay yeah he is!

Just wondered why he only seems fo want to know her when we’re there but I don’t want to go now tbh it’s bringing me down

what @Beautifulbythebay says. sit back and enjoy some peace. I love visiting my parents as both ds like nan and grandad company so i can actually sit and enjoy a cuppa in blissful silence.

Because you are with him all the time and she spoils him for small amounts of time, that’s the point of grandparents! Enjoy the peace

I’m just feeling a bit touchy as I had a baby 3 months ago and since I’ve been so worried he won’t like me anymore because I’ve constantly got the baby

im breastfeeding and the baby only settles for me so me and DS get rare moments alone but I haven’t had loads of time 1-2- with him since she arrived and I feel so guilty

snd I’m scared he goes to his grandparents and thinks “oh she doesn’t constantly hold my little sister” etc and dislikes me for it