My husband and I are separating and trying to work out what is best for our 9 month old. He is moving 100 miles away and wants the baby every weekend. While I think this is ok for now I worry that my other children won’t get to spend time with their sibling and that I will miss out on family days out with all my kids.
He also doesn’t drive so he would want me to come up once a weekend when my other kids are at their dads to pick the baby up which i’m not too keen on.
He won’t settle for every other weekend as that’s too long away from the baby which I understand but I’m stuck with what could be a sensible option for us. It’s not like he could have the baby during the week.
If he wasn’t moving away I’d happily share the time 50/50 but in this case it’s just not practical.