We had a rougher than usual night last night, baby up and down as usual. But we had a power cut and issues with the electrics so turned everything off at the fuse board. My 6yo got up in the night scared and asked to get into bed with me. Fine, no issues I really love that he’s asked and miss how often he used to do it.
OH wakes up in a foul mood telling me to move over and that DS being in the bed has caused him to have a bad back. He then goes on to shout at DS and says to stay in “your own f***g bed next time!”
OH goes downstairs to make his flask (I’ve usually done everything for him). I walk round the bed to get the baby who’s been woken up and notice my son is lying there crying so we have a cuddle and I tell him it’s all okay. It breaks my heart as he absolutely idolises his dad, but he just can’t control his temper over anything!
OH then comes up and says goodbye to the baby, totally ignores DS and I. I follow him downstairs asking why we’ve been ignored and he snaps at me saying “you don’t care for my welfare why should I say goodbye to you!” HE’S 6!!!!! He’s come into our bed because he was frightened ffs.
DS used to be in our bed to cuddle me everyday a couple of years ago, OH hated it and ended up screaming at him so he stopped :(
Sorry I don’t have anyone to vent to!