Girl Mom or boy Mom

[mommyandmore]

Which is harder in your opinion & why?

I have a 20 month old girl who is full of sass and big emotions. She loves books and can be sensitive to the world around her.

We have good days and days when I want to throw her out of the window 😂

I have 1, a girl age 7 and she's been a dream since birth, super chill and easy.

I’m sorry OP, you lost me at girl mom & boy mom. I hate it when people describe themselves like that. Almost as bad as using mumma or mumma bear.

Yep!! Baby dad leads me to block that person!

I really don’t think it makes any difference. You’re not really a ‘girl’ mum or ‘boy’ mum, you’re just a mum and you raise each child according to their needs, regardless of sex.

How ridiculous. Children are different from each other and 'difficulty' is not informed by sex.

Boys are never called sassy though - they'd be bold or assertive or confident - all words with no slightly negative undertones

Once you believe gender exists then you see it and make the world fit

And I did read the subject as asking if a boy could be a mum

Imagine your boss pondering whether managing women is harder than men due to sass and emotions.

Or your employee considering if you'd be a better boss as a man.

I'd hope you'd be royally fucked off. Expect better for children too.

Your question is sexist and I find the terminology irritating.

Applying sexist assumptions and stereotypes to children is harmful.

You parent the child you have. Each child is different and will have a variety of personal traits, which are not dependent on their sex.