I was with my childs father for 10 years and have been separated for three. We have a 5 year old, my daughters dad lives in a different country so when we separated we still done things together as a family and when he came here, he stayed in the house as I personally think that's better for my daughter, her father also has no family or friends here. Since meeting my bf ive stopped doing the family things for his sake, stopped her father staying, which now my daughter also has to stay in a hotel. I understand my bfs points and feelings but I feel like he's constantly nit picking.now it was a problem I went into the hotel to drop my daughter off.he is forever bad mouthing him,even though they are yet to meet .Her father and I get on well and he has always said he is not interested in my love life as that's my business and his is nothing to do with me and that's how him and I have been since. My boyfriend is making more demands that I must tell my childs father about us, which I actually have, with his response just being "okay then".My daughter wants her dad and I to do things with her still and often gets upset. I really don't know what to do. My bf is quite jealous over many other things not relating to this and I just don't want him making my co parenting difficult as I feel that's where it's heading.
I am going away soon on a holiday and it would be easier for me for her father to come and stay here, take her to school etc and I wouldn't be around anyway but I have also had to not allow that for the sake of my bf and get other care for her. Please advise as I am unsure on what to do