Just wondering if I’m being unreasonable here or if my partner is the problem. We have 2 children together 18 months and 3 months old. I have a 5 year old from a previous relationship.
Today whilst I was downstairs the 5 yo, snatched from the toddler. I heard my partner saying things like “put that down, never ever touch that again, I’ll just start snatching from you and see how you like it” I came upstairs and he was still going on, I told 5yo to apologise to her little sister and play nicely, he then started getting angry shouting at me telling me to shut up and not get involved and that apologies mean nothing etc etc
he went for a bath then when he came out he still was on the warpath, telling 5yo not to cry like a little baby and saying that I’ll be treated like a child too if I want to act like one and I need to let him discipline the way he wants because toddler will not be treated like that off of anybody. fast forward half an hour and he’s still being moody, told 5yo he’s not interested in what she’s saying to him.
this is just the tip of the iceberg to be honest but surely to get this angry over a child snatching then keep going on about it is extremely over the top?!