knocking

[Billyboyman]

Hey i have had a random child knocking my door to play with my son, i have said no, but keeps asking why i am bored, i have spoke to there parent but he keeps coming everyday what do i do, my child is not well to play outside do i ignore it so they stop coming to the door plz any advice would help many thank.

Ignore it?

you’ve spoken to the parents and the child keep knocking? How old are they?

I assume said child lives locally.... knows you have a child and knows he's too unwell to play out and wants to do a nice thing?

Is there a particular reason you don’t want them to be friends? If your son is too young or too unwell to play outside could you suggest a play date inside or in the garden with supervision?

yea i have they said sorry but her carrys on his may be around 7 years old my son is 6 years old.

hey to be honest i dont trust me area i live in handsworth in Birmingham.

hey no just someone random on the street, i dont like my child to hang on the street to be honest in handsworth in birmingham

just a random on the street... yet you mananged to locate parents of said random and had a word?

is there a reason why your child is not allowed to play out? i think its lovely that this little neighbour is trying to make friends with your little one.

if this has really happened at all that is

any more advice anyone

Just stop answering the door.

then the behaviour will stop

yea i have they said sorry but her carrys on his may be around 7 years old my son is 6 years old.

@Billyboyman it might stop because the child might get bored eventually.
It's a shame you don't want to encourage the friendship though. Do they go to the same school?

hey no they dont but if you checked the crime rate in the area you would see why i dont.

@Billyboyman sorry but what has 2 small children becoming friends got to do with the crime rate?

check the area first then say dont know why people are attacking me i asked for some advice!!

@Billyboyman the advice is either ignore the child knocking
or
let the children become friends (they don't have to play outside in the streets).
It is likely they are at the same school and know each other already. Is your child allowed other friends from school?