My partner and I are at the end of our tether with no idea how to proceed. Our just turned 3 year old DS toilet trained at 2 years 9 months. It was difficult and took about 6 weeks but it was led by DS as he was ready for pants and the potty as proclaimed by him. Once toilet trained he spent a month with no accidents (he wore a nappy for naps and bedtime) and consistently took himself off to the toilet or asked us to take him every day and rarely needed any reminding whatsoever. He used a reward chart. Since then he has completely regressed to weeing through his pants 1-6 times daily, refusing to ever ask to go, protesting when taken and just refusing to participate whatsoever. 2 months on weve tried a new reward chart, tried extreme praise, tried saying nothing and have tried the methods consistently for 2 weeks each and, sadly, also shouting in absolute frustration (which I am ashamed to say). NOTHING works. We've ended up having to put him in pull ups (which he never was before) but hes learning nothing from it, just constantly wees through. I'm shattered as I have a 7 month old and get 2-3 hours sleep a night for the last 8 months which is not his fault but it doesn't help the situation. I have got very angry at him at points which is not acceptable but I just do not know what to do anymore. Our house is a very unhappy one as a result. There appears to be no information on this on the internet - only information for when toilet training has not been successful rather than when a child is completely toilet trained and then has total regression which has lasted for months. I am scared to put him back in nappies and knock his confidence more than I already have but Im worried pull ups are doing nothing for him. I have looked at the Eric website and this also has no information on this specific scenario. Has anyone else had the same problem or have any idea how I can move forward in the most appropriate way?