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Is this colic/reflux/allergy or still hungry?!

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Strawberry06 · 27/03/2024 12:48

DS is 5 weeks old today and can 'sometimes' be difficult to settle after feeds and I was wondering about silent reflux/colic but seen a doctor today and he's said he's alergic to the milk.

He's formula fed and we had been giving him kendamil organic (GP hadn't heard of it) but we switched to the non organic one cause we were gifted a tin and it could be coincidence that this has started at the same time! We've nearly finished the tin which ususlly last us a week.

He's on 4oz which is ususlly 4 hours apart.

I'd say he's generally a good sleeper during the night. He'll wake up on the dot for his feed though when I put him down he can take a while to settle in that he'll keep spitting his dummy out, getting upset, until I put it back in. This can happen upteen times before he eventually drifts off, but no crying or excessive screaming.

He can be quite difficult to burp and on a few occasions he's refused to let us burp him, he just wriggles and squirms all over the place while screaming/bright red in the face.

He's put on over a 1lb when I got him weighed at 4 weeks.

He grunts A LOT and I suppose you could say he's a bit nasaly - sounds a little pig!

He often coughs/chokes during feeding but I think this is because he drinks very quickly? We feed him upright.

He can often get hiccups. He had them 5 times yesterday. But before that I can't remember when he had them last.

As I mentioned after daytime feeds he sometimes starts screaming and nothing seems to work. A dummy will help for a bit until he spits it out and sometimes refuses it back. DH can eventually get him to settle on his chest.

We tend to burp him via the sitting on leg method as over the shoulder he just wriggles about everywhere as he's also quite strong and lifts/face plants his head. He does also arch his back but I dunno if this is part of his strength or whether he's looking around for more food and could still be hungry!

Shortly after we put him on kendamil organic (which was when he was 1 week old) he developed spots on his cheeks which I thought was baby acne. It's now got better however the doctor says it's not baby acne and is a sign of allergy. He's prescribed some milk but I'm not convinced it's an allergy and don't know whether to try him back on the organic kendamil first?

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Superscientist · 27/03/2024 13:08

It sounds a lot like my allergy daughter to be honest but she was breastfeed. If you are planning on changing the milks anyway I think I would do the trial of allergy formula first. After a few weeks you will be asked to challenge it

I find the sooner allergies are identified the easier life gets as the gut improves quicker. To me it is much better to unnecessarily use a dairy free formula for a few weeks and find it wasn't a dairy allergy than to try another formula find out it was a dairy allergy but the you are a few weeks further down the line. MH daughters allergy wasn't diagnosed until 18 weeks but symptoms started at 1 week. They creeped in slowly during the first 6-7 weeks but from 7 onwards she became completely inconsolable.

The initial dairy formulas are still cows milk based but the cows milk has been broken down so the body doesn't recognise it as dairy. These are more palatable and are easier to give than the amino acid formulas which taste horrid for more sensitive babies who need completely dairy free formula.

Strawberry06 · 27/03/2024 13:21

Forgot to add that he strains quite a lot as though he's got discomfort in his tummy and often sounds like a car with squeaky brakes going round a corner!

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Superscientist · 27/03/2024 13:30

Gastric discomfort is another cmpa symptoms for those with delayed allergies. I think a short trial of the dairy formula would be worth doing. It can take 4-6 weeks to see the improvement.

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Devilsmommy · 27/03/2024 13:30

It really does sound like an allergy. Everything you've described is what my lo was like and he's dairy intolerant

Strawberry06 · 27/03/2024 13:36

@Superscientist he's given us it for 3 weeks then we've to go back

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Strawberry06 · 27/03/2024 16:06

I think we will try him on it and then he has his 6-8 week routine appointment 3 weeks today so that's a good time to bring it up again I think.

I should add I've tried to get hold of my HV to ask advice but no where to be seen despite me leaving messages!

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Superscientist · 27/03/2024 19:51

Do you have an infant feeding team? They might be able to help too

Do your HV have a weighing clinic? That can help get face to face with someone to arrange a follow up.

Strawberry06 · 27/03/2024 20:08

There is an infant feeding drop in clinic tomorrow which I'm going to go to.

Got him weighed last week and did mention things to HV that weighed him and all she said was to feed him upright and burp for at least 20 minutes

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Strawberry06 · 28/03/2024 11:07

So HV called me back this morning and on explaining everything to her she doesn't think he has an allergy. She said his poo would be green/diarrhoea and that he'd be vomiting. I didn't tell her I'd seen GP.

Instead she thinks he might still be hungry and to up his food to 5oz that way he might be full and more relaxed to burp?

I must say I was surprised the doctor went straight in at prescribing neocate without any tests etc?

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