In laws

[mumspiration1997]

How can I deal with a m.i.l that's so rude to me and my child. Babysits her other grandchild same age every Friday night. so no issues there but won't offer to take mine . Seems to hate me

If she won't have your child you thank goodness that you and your dc have no obligation to have any kind of relationship with her.

It's not that she wouldn't have my child as such. But just wouldn't offer and I feel like if I ask she'll say yes and then not really want the child. Is that bad

Why do you want someone so unpleasant to have a relationship with you child? They will notice you are not treated well and could end up thinking that it's acceptable.

It's awkward as the whole family visit for Sunday lunch. So what do I just not go? She makes such a big deal of DSIL but as if I'm not there. Husband says jealousy but I'm not quite sure if that's true and even so, why. I've tried for 10years at this point.

To be honest as others will say this she's a grandparent not a free babysitter. It's down to her if she wants too or not.

However She's clearly not worth thinking about or dwelling on if she doesn't make an effort with your child.