So my ex has been with his girlfriend for around 6-9 months now, and I feel like she takes the upper hand when parenting our son (she has children of her own) when he's with them.
My son is really fussy with food and can be really funny with the look, feel and taste of different foods so he's very reluctant to try new things. However, since being with his girlfriend, he's returned home with sick on his clothes or has been changed with his sick clothes in a bag. They say they've been "encouraging" him to try new foods, but then saying he's not allowed to leave the table unless he's eaten some or all of it and they've told me before that he's been sat at the table for 1hr 30mins because he didn't want to eat it/didn't like it. I've been told he's wretched and threw up his food because he's stuffing too much in his mouth (which isn't like him at all).
He never wretches or throws up at home and I would never ever make him sit at a table for ages trying to get him to eat something.
They make this the forefront of his visit and my son has cried and said he doesn't want to go because, and I quote, "my dad makes me eat all of my dinner."
I was told last night that he was put in a HIGH CHAIR?!
Apparently that was only because there was a small toddler there who was trying to get to my son's food. But I don't believe that reason.
Im hoping they're telling the truth and are just trying to encourage him to try new foods but I think they're going out it the wrong way.
But in my gut, I'm really worried that there's something going on.
Who can I talk to about this?