What would you do in this situation? so every single year when it’s my younger sons birthday my older one will be very very nasty on the day, just literally awful will go out of his way to try to ruin the day and just wind him up all day and try to make him upset, he does this every year and I have no idea why. I had forgotten about it as he didn’t do it last year as his father was here last year so surprise surprise he didn’t do it and was on his best behaviour but this year he started again and was just so mean and rude. How would you handle this because his birthday is 2 weeks later yet he expects to have a nice lovely day despite bullying my younger one on his birthday and trying to ruin it and making him cry. Does anyone else’s child do this? How would you handle it as I find birthdays very hard anyway as a lone parent I try my best to make the day nice because I have no family so I try to make the day as special as possible so my children don’t feel like they are missing anything and birthdays are a very hard day as a lone parent with no family and when someone keeps constantly trying to ruin the day deliberately I find this really upsetting. How would others handle this situation? (He was of course told of yesterday but he does it every single year)