Toddler running into nursery, normal?

[Tanya24]

Hi MN,
My 2.5 year old had settling in sessions where he cried a lot.
All of a sudden he began to RUN into nursery, saying bye! Sometimes not even acknowledging I’m going.
Is this normal? Does anyone else have this?
I’m probably overthinking this because I’ve been reading up on attachment styles. I’m a ftm so might have too much time on my hands to think about this but just curious.
When I go to pick dc up they are super excited and happy.

your toddler Is happy and excited to leave you and go and fun with their little friends etc shows a healthy attachment, don't worry.

and the fact they are just as happy when you return shows they had a great day.

My son sometimes cries when I come to collect him. He wants to stay and play. He's 2.5 too. It's not flattering...but so much better knowing he likes it, than worrying he's unhappy. He's a confident little guy, maybe your boy is too?

My eldest never cried at drop off, even on her first day.
My youngest cried nearly everyday until she was nearly 4. And at pick up!

They both loved going. And being at home. The eldest had just never been overtly emotional, and the younger one has a real dramatic streak.

And now they are nearly teenagers and still exactly the same.

@Mrsjayy Yes he does have the best time there, had our first ‘parents evening’ where they said he’s always happy, smiling etc. So I’m happy he’s enjoying it

@NeeNaw12 Yes I have to say I am much happier now knowing he’s enjoying nursery and can engage with the activities rather than being upset. My boy is also very confident which does make things easier knowing he’s just getting on with it!

this is great, I know you might be feeling a bit weird that he isn't a bit clingy or sad but he's happy and having the best time, there needs to be solid attachments between nursery/ key workers and parents and your son seems confident and easy going.

Yes very normal for a happy child -

all good

My DS is in Reception now but I love it when he ran into nursery/runs into school. I'm so glad he's happy and also there there are so many people that care about him (he tells me quite seriously that he likes his teacher more than me).

What I liked less was the tantrums at nursery when he didn't want to leave and wanted to spend the night there...

As soon as they open the door my youngest drops my hand and walks in without saying goodbye. To be fair he doesn't say hello to anyone either. Just heads straight for the breakfast room.

DD used to love going to nursery and didn't always say goodbye - she was desperate to get in and have breakfast and be spoilt by her 'nursery grownups'

That shows a very confident attachment to you, and good relationships with his nursery staff. I'd be delighted if I was you!

This, enjoy it, he has clearly settled in and is enjoying his time there.

I'm not sure what you've been reading, but from what I understand, that sounds like secure attachment. He knows you're coming back and has the freedom to enjoy himself without fearing abandonment.