Daughter sleeping in mums room with mum and boyfriend

[rob38]

My 6 year old daughter sleeps in her mums bed. When her mums boyfriends stays over on a Friday, my daughter sleeps on the floor in the bedroom. I am not sure if that is appropriate? My daughter has a bedroom in the house but her mum has never moved her into sleeping in her own room.

I’d be switching lawyers. Stick at it.

I've been in your shoes OP and i didnt like it one little bit. My daughter was 9 and my ex was too lazy to sort out separate bedrooms so when he met his new girlfriend he (and apparently she 🤨) thought it was appropriate for them all to share a room!? And before anyone thinks i rinsed him in the divorce so he could only get a bedsit, no he got everything to the tune of hundreds of thousands!)

I threw every toy out of the pram, hard. I refused to send DD there until a 2nd bedroom was sorted and if he didnt like it, he could take me to court. He didnt, he sorted it eventually.

I wouldn't like this for my child. But tbh, the more I think about it, the more situations I can think of that are similar and wouldn't bother me so much...
How long has the mums boyfriend been in her life?

Is there a reason why you don't have 50/50 custody at least?

It's extremely weird. I won't be happy about it.
Your daughter has her own room and old enough to sleep alone. Such a strange decision from the mother.

@Anotherdayanotherdollar he's been in her life about 6 months I think

@sunlovingcriminal I do have 50/50 with my son, but when we made the arrangements my daughter was only 3 or 4 and wanted to stay living mostly with her mum.

Thank you everyone for your advice

Oh. That's not very long at all...

At 6 months in he shouldn't even have met the child never mind be sharing a bedroom with her. That's horrific. So negligent.