Ex and I split a few days before Xmas last year. He did it over the phone outside the pub.
I've accepted it and moving forward and trying to co parent best I can.
The last week I've been so poorly with flu and chest infection and been completely knocked off my feet. Struggled with the kids (youngest is exes) and my mum offered to have the kids over the weekend so I could rest and get better. (It was my weekend with the youngest).
Ex has text me saying I shouldn't be sending his daughter away or passing her about without talking to him first. Had a real go at me.
For background purposes he never helped with kids if I was poorly when we were together. He would still go to football or nights out etc and leave me to fend for myself.
Surely the kids spending time with their grandparents whilst I'm poorly isn't a bad thing? I haven't replied to his message yet.