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Party at home advice

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BoyMamma2 · 12/02/2024 10:29

My younger son’s birthday is coming up and he wants a party with his friends. He will be 6 and never had a party. His older brother had parties from age 3 although now he’s older is just a few friends. At that point we had two good incomes but now on my own and this year had been very stressful financially.

Soft plays etc are so expensive. Looked into a local hall but need to do all the set up/clean up within a short period which is tricky with one parent and again it’s not exactly cheap.

Am I crazy got inviting his little group of friends to my home? There would be 9 inc him and his brother. I have a garden but in Scotland so weather unreliable even in April. We’ve only been to one house party but the parents very wealthy and went way out with entertainment, face paining etc. Realistically we can’t afford entertainment so it’d be me and Alexa doing the entertainment, chatting to parents and doing small buffet (preparing in advance).

Does that sound crap? Feel kids are so used to big ticket stuff now. Dont want to embarrass him. He doesn’t seem to care though.

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anotherdayanotherpathlesstravelled · 12/02/2024 10:31

My eldest has been to several parties done at the child's home and she has said they were the best ones by far compared to organised event type ones

Acunningruse · 12/02/2024 10:37

Definitely can be done but IMO I would get parents to drop off (maybe ask a close friend to stay and help) but having parents there and having to make them drinks will just add to your stress.

I did DDs 6th birthday at home and did:

  • fairycake decorating when they arrived
  • musical statues (give a sweet when they are out)
  • pass the parcel
  • duck duck goose

Birthday tea (sandwiches, crisps, sausages, crudités and fruit)

I would say plan more activities than you think you will need as otherwise they can go a bit feral.

Another option a family in DDs class did last week is all meet at the local park. Mum had done some scavenger hunt/activity trail type sheets, the kids did a loop of the park then she had done sandwich boxes which they ate on picnic benches then had a play in the play area. It was freezing but everyone wrapped up warm and it was a lovely morning.

Rosesanddaisies1 · 12/02/2024 10:41

If DS is happy with that, great. Don't buy into the instagram pressure. I wouldn't have parents stay, just ask one friend to help.

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UnravellingTheWorld · 12/02/2024 19:40

For a few 6 yos you can TOTALLY just do a few classic party games and they'll have a great time

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