I’ve have issues with my child’s father constantly. Every week there is always something. Not turning up. Not picking up from school. Not bothering. The list goes on. I really can’t take too much more it’s mentally draining. There’s been a few serious issues which ended in him having supervised access. My child is 5. He has another child who is 11. I’ve found out he has smacked/hit his other child. He has also called other child an awful name and said he’s done. I don’t have too much context of what happened. But it’s yet again made me think. He’s not fit to be a dad. If he can be like that to one child will he be the same to mine. He doesn’t have regular days to see child. Just as and when. And that does my head in. And when child is with him I’m constantly worried. Mainly due to past events. I just don’t know what to do. I just don’t feel child is safe with him. Can I suggest mediation and stop visits till something is sorted. No idea what willl help as I don’t think he will ever change. I feel I need to take control before I lose my mind.