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happy slapping 18 month old

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knackereddad · 18/03/2008 11:43

Hi all Am a regular reading dad.

My son has 'picked' up a habit from nursery; I am of course assuming it is learned behaviour, rather than a developmental hiccup up because I?m a neurotic, reactionary {insert rude adjective}typ of dad.

When told not to do something - stick fingers in fire, plug sockets, lick window etc; he reacts by slapping my partner or I. We of course explain to him that this not appropriate and cajole him into apologising which he does with extreme prejudice.

I have learnt today that a child with whom he attends nursery has always exhibited this behaviour. Is it too early for a naughty chair, should I resort to locking him into a cupboard or should I storm red faced and brandishing a tub of hummus towards the mother of this child and demand that she lock him in the cupboard?
But seriously what to do?

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
Twiglett · 18/03/2008 11:45

stop explaining

say no firmly and put him down and ignore him for a minute

every time

no more explaining, cajoling at all .. firm and decisive

it's a developmental blip .. you can't blame another child for it .. that's too PFB

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