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Please help my mum guilt, how long do you see your kids after work?

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YetiSeven · 09/01/2024 18:38

Returning to work early next month pretty much fuly time (4.5 days with leave) but due to where my job is based and the commute I have, I have to leave before LO wakes in the morning and will see them for maybe 2/3 when I get in from work depending on when they go to bed. Going from spending all day every day with them to three hours max a day seems horrifying to me. Please can any other working parents make me feel better about my self or more positive about the situation 😩 on the few test runs we have done LO has had a lovely day with care givers, and has then clung onto me a bit more than usual in the evening as to be expected but otherwise seems unaffected.

To add, there is no way to change circumstances it is what it is, looking for a hand hold 😅

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Bibbidybobbidyroo · 10/01/2024 15:48

My DH and I split drop off and pick up, so he leaves before she wakes up and we have the morning together including the commute to nursery. DH then collects her and I get home around 6/6.30 and we have dinner/bath/bed.

Sometimes I am really tired and its a struggle to have energy for bed time, cant lie.

We make sure weekends are family focused and she gets much better quality time with us!

Shiningout · 10/01/2024 16:34

The reality is unless you have a lot of money you have to work to survive, there's no getting around it. No point feeling guilty for something you have to do

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