My dp and i have very opposite parenting styles. Im more gentle parenting and he's more one chance only and there's instant consequences. For example our ds 7 is really difficult atm. We're currently waiting for him to be assessed for adhd. My ds tantrums really bad, he screams, shouts, back chats, throws himself on the floor, throws things. But theres always a trigger for these outbursts. I think he struggles to regulate his emotions. Which is one of the reasons i believe it's adhd. When he's having one of his (many) moments, i will try to talk to him and calm him down and get him to explain why he's feeling this way, im very patient. Dp will hear him 'tantrum' and immediately put him in his room slamming his door shut and tells him to not come back out. He shows no affection towards ds and ds seems to easily annoy dp. But then like i said, im more patient and can tolerate his behaviour a lot more. Am i looking to much into it? Does it sound like tough love or no love?