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Is this life…? PND or just life with young kids

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Shleepymummy · 06/01/2024 20:40

Have two young children, 6 months and 2.5 year old. Life just seems to be- wake up, food, clean up, play/get out, food, clean up, kids nap, I clean/tidy/admin, play/get out, food, clean up, bathtime, bedtime. Everyday. I breastfeed so have to add that in how ever many times a day, get in the car, out the car, pram up, pram back in the car, go to shops, go to cafe. Husband and I spend our evening watching tv then bed. I’m up 1/2 times a night with the baby. Don’t get me wrong I take the kids to baby classes, try to see friends, try to do stuff at weekends but it’s mainly park, coffee shop, soft play. It’s all just very…..dull. Repetitive. There is no excitement or anything that perks me up. Ground hog day for what 4 years until school starts?!
Am I an absolute Scrooge, am I depressed? Or is this parenting young children?

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Shleepymummy · 07/01/2024 10:08

Thanks all. General consensus seems
to be that it is part of parenting young kids.
@Winnipeggy i do enjoy spending time with the children, toddler makes me laugh and is easy to look after. Baby is harder. I enjoy it more when it’s one on one as opposed to both of them, because as @VivaVivaa said I feel spread too thinly to enjoy them both sometimes. It’s hard work. But selfishly, I really enjoy when baby is napping and toddler is at nursery and I can have a bath, watch tv, eat some cake….Probs not going to win mum of the year award for that.
@booni13 this is exactly how I feel, grumpy. And it’s the same old shit as you say.
i want to mix it up but where I live there is only so many soft play, parks, cafe etc. I don’t live in London or a particularly thriving large city.
i will keep an eye on it and see GP if it gets worse. Maybe more sleep is the answer and going to bed at 8pm needs to happen. Just means then you really do get no free time and it’s just wake up, caretaker, sleep.
in terms of a hobby, I don’t want to go to the gym, I don’t really want to try running outside in winter. Don’t really know what I would enjoy…
at the moment I’m just…Mummy.

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