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Normal baby problem, or something we should treat?

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esgill · 10/12/2023 12:43

Our 9-week-old daughter seems quite unhappy with digestive issues.

I breastfeed her. She is gaining lots of weight which HV and GP are happy with. We're vegan so I don't eat dairy, which I know is behind a lot of digestive complaints.

The symptoms:

-She spits up milk after many feeds, occasionally vomiting (comes out of her nose)
-She doesn't like lying on her back during the day
-She refuses some feeds during the day whereas she used to cluster feed.
-She is very gassy and writhes.
-She is wheezy and coughs a bit and sneezes quite frequently.
-Almost daily hiccoughs.
-Daytime fussiness (worst around lunchtime, it has been bad during witching hour): lots of scream-crying and generally looking unhappy, wanting to be upright and wanting motion.

At night this doesn't seem to be an issue, oddly. She goes to sleep between 9 pm - 11 pm and feeds roughly every 2 hours until waking properly at 8.30 am, or thereabouts. She lies on her back.

My question: is this normal for a young baby, or something we should seek to medicate? We tried gaviscon but she doesn't keep it down. Gripe water initially seemed to work but now it doesn't do anything. Infacol seemed to briefly make things worse. A doctor in a mum and baby class (not my own doctor but another attendee) suggested we try omeprazole but I want to know if these are normal short-lived issues or ones we should try and do something about. I hate seeing her struggle.

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Theduchy · 10/12/2023 12:46

That sounds normal to me but I'm no expert

GreatGateauxsby · 10/12/2023 13:08

Fairly Normal at this age ime.

Try keeping her upright post feed in a bouncer or held and also in a sling or on you Vs on back in the day.

I wouldn't be rushing for omeprazole if she's gaining well. If it's an issue at 4/5m revisit but I imagine it will be outgrown in a few weeks.

Thelazygardener · 10/12/2023 13:11

If allergy is ruled out Has she been checked for tongue tie at all and is possibly taking in excess air?

If she has been checked, was it by more than one person? I only say this only as somebody who’s babys tongue tie was missed by no less than 8 professionals. My son wasn’t gaining weight but I’ve met so many women since then whose babies have been able to feed perfectly fine in terms of gaining weight but have suffered with sickness and wind at the same time.

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esgill · 10/12/2023 13:27

@Thelazygardenerour hv and gp said she doesn't have a tongue tie but i've heard of many misdiagnoses such as yours. Can i get this assessed without forking out £200 for a lactation consultant?

@GreatGateauxsby did you have a similar experience? Seriously hoping it gets better soon... hate seeing her in pain.

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GreatGateauxsby · 10/12/2023 13:50

Yes she was super crabby and vommy. We had that infacol stuff and something else both did very little. She did grow out of it.
it got progressively a little better, bit by bit and when she could burp herself at about 5/6m it got MUCH better.

babies do just over eat / get sick randomly.
shes 20m now and on Friday vommed up her dinner then happily went about her business. 🥴🥴🥴I was sure we were heading for a weekend of D&V hell but she is absolutely fine 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

I would keep an eye on it though and if you dont think it’s improving or you feel something really isn’t right push for answers.

InTheRainOnATrain · 10/12/2023 14:01

Are you eating Soy? Babies that have CMPA are very often allergic to soya too. So could be worth cutting that out and seeing if any improvement.

Superscientist · 10/12/2023 14:34

Dairy and eggs are just two allergens they can react to anything you eat. My daughter has over 20 food allergies and most of these she reacted to me eating. Her worst allergies were soya, tomatoes and coconut! Other allergies include onions and garlic it really can be anything!

Sounds like reflux and I would look I to omperazole. My daughter has reflux in addition to her allergies and took high dose omperazole and gaviscon to get an improvement.

Go to the drs about omperazole and start a food diary there can be a 3 day gap between eating a food and seeing symptoms

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