My DSS (13) continually calls my DS (4) a loser or smelly or a noob. It is really starting to get to me. I continually ask him not to, try and remind him to be kind. Ask him to stop as I don’t DS repeating it in school, try to explain the age difference or that when he was that age I would have been cross if someone was doing that to him but it falls on deaf ears. I want them to play and interact but this continual taunting is really getting to me. I panic about it, he does it in ear shot, out of ear shot. If I ask him to stop calling him smelly he will call him a loser instead. I need some help on how to deal with the situation. I’ve tried explaining that it would be like a 20 year old doing it to him all the time but nothing is working. Am I in the wrong to be getting so annoyed about it? I just feel like you should be safe from taunting/bullying in your own home.