My other half goes to work at 8.30 , he comes back at 6.45ish even though he's meant to Finnish at 5. He works from my mums house, he's remote. He doesn't help get the kids ready in the morning for school, they aren't easy and are late every day, he rarely does the kitchen, there is 6 of us so you can only imagine how much tidying/cleaning is needed and it's like he's just leaving me to do everything, including putting the kids to bed and then moans if he can't find any clean socks on the odd occasion. I'm so busy but he doesn't get it. He seems to think because I'm the mum, my job is kids, house , appointments , food shop, etc. I work 2 days a week but I have one child waiting an ASD assessment and another on a reduced time table at school so I'm back and forth a lot doing school runs in amongst everything else. I'm curious to know what your other half's do in terms of kids/school/house work etc.